Six SECRETS You Should Never Tell Anyone


"Have you ever told someone more they need to know "?

"Have you had a phone conversation and thereafter regret saying more than you should"?

Well, you are not alone..... This article is just for you,

The truth is that most of us have a habit of wearing our hearts on our sleeves (openly showing our feelings or emotions rather than keep them hidden). This makes us an open book even to strangers. Which we definitely do not want – as mystery is the spice of life, after all. It becomes important then to keep a clear distinction between your personal life and your professional life no matter how difficult it may. You should be picky about who you share your secrets with, because the sad reality of life is that it is not everyone has good intentions.

Consequently, you need to be careful to make sure that the details of your personal life can’t be used to hurt you in anyway. This is why it is useful to have a basic list of certain personal information you should never share with others. In case you do not know how to make your own list, this article should guild you. In this piece, I have compiled some secrets you should always try to keep to yourself, no matter how strong the urge to share them with people becomes.

Joan Collins once said that “The secret of having a personal life is not answering too many questions about it.”

1. Material Belongings
We all know too well that certain things in life are far more important than their cost. But sometimes, we simply can not help but brag about that new car we got or the latest phone we just bought at an exclusive price.

As much as Parks and Recreation might tell you otherwise, I don't think your colleagues want to know about how you’ve been treating yourself. They may perceive you as being arrogant and overtly obsessed with the monetary value of things rather than their unique significance. You should try and be modest in your conversations.

2. Past Resentments
There is certainly going to be negative stories to tell about people you do not like. This could be related to a schoolmate or former colleague that you held a grudge against years ago – and maybe still do? Yeah, same here.)

But the best thing to do is to let go of these feelings and not discuss them especially in public. This will be of much benefit to you as much as it'd be to those you would have shared them with because negativity is exhausting. Not just to feel but also to listen to.

People prefer having conversation positive partners, who will provide interesting insights – not ones who groan about some other people they do not even know. Get rid of whatever’s weighing you down and simply focus on the present. You’ll find that more and more people will be keen to talk to you.

3. Family Problems
Don't spread your family's undies in public. Whether it is your extended family or your blood relatives, keeping the problems in the family is best. Don’t abuse the trust they've placed on you.

You were told those secrets because you are close to these people, but that is not a licence to start spreading them around to everyone in your social circle. They confided in you, and breaking that confidence is the worst thing you could possibly do. Be careful of other people’s secrets. In return, you can expect for them to treat you the same

4. Your Income
Your income should be known only by your bank. Money is never a nice subject to talk about in public because you never know what anyone’s financial situation looks like. It may look like you’re bragging without meaning to.
Money – and knowledge about finances – can mar relationships irreparably. Once your financial situation becomes public knowledge, people just start seeing you differently without being able to help it. Save yourself from such awkward situation by keep the details of your income to your bank statements.

You also do not know who to trust in this regards as you may be inviting robbers to scammers to rob you of your hard earned money.

5. Good Deeds
Good deeds always attracts good karma. You should never be discouraged from doing good – however, if you start bragging about it, it takes on a whole different perspective. Once you brag about something good that you’ve done, you’re making it all about yourself, thus invalidating the good that you’ve already created.

A lot of the great philanthropists in the world choose to remain anonymous for a very good reason. When you do a charitable deed, you want the attention to be on the people or the cause that you are helping and not on yourself.

6. Your Future Goals
You may object to this opinion, but there is actually a science behind the fact that you’re much more likely to achieve your long-term goals if you do not share them with others. When you tell people about your future aspirations, it begins to feel like the enjoyment of achieving the goal has been taken from you.

As a result of this, you would barely work as hard towards it. It is therefore important to keep your goals to yourself, however, as you have a much higher chance of achieving them. And once you have done that, you can go ahead and tell the whole world about it.