***DEAR MEN***
When last did you help your wife out to hold the baby, stay with the kids, get groceries, cook, wash or even compliment her efforts in keeping the home?

I and my husband take turns to rock our 5 months old second son to sleep because sometimes he wants his daddy to hold him to sleep instead of me and vice versa. Now if his daddy is not available, how would they have developed the bond?
Sometimes, my husband helps me to do the dishes, sweep the house, cook and also bathe our first boy. He has actually made things easy for me and I know every woman will like her man to lend a hand from time to time.

Dear men, do not wait until she asks. Help her out in the ways you can no matter how little. It is not belittling yourself, it is an expression of love.

We all know that these days unlike in the days of old, most women support the household financially by going out there to hustle. Now if she can go out there to work hard and support you in providing for the family, why not give her some relief and show of love and appreciation by helping her out around the house.

By doing so, you are bettering your relationship and also modeling a good and loving father and husband to your children.

Dear men, try as much as you can. Remember, it is love and not control!