It's very difficult approaching a girl you don't know very well or at all for the first time, this is because guys tend to b be very concerned as for what the outcome will be, how she will react, what she will take or if she will ever reply. But on thing most guys don't know is that girls to have this feeling but the have very strange and funny way of showing them.

How To Approach A Lady In A Public Place;

1. Eye contact

Girls are very shy, even though they are crushing on you so hard, they will never walk up to you to let you know. They usually show their interest on someone through her contacts and body language. If she is constantly staring at you or remove her eyes when you spot her staring then it means she probably likes something you are doing or wants to take with you but don't know how to.

In a scenario like this you as guy need to stare back at her and let her know that you are staring, it will give her a feeling that you are feeling the same vibes she is feeling.


2. Approach from the right angle.

Approach her with the right angle, you need to let her know that you mean no harm and you just want to talk. Approach her in a way that she can see you coming towards her don't walk in a hurry, don't walk rugged or act rugged, just act simple and friendly with a smile.


3. Be friendly.

Be friendly in your character, manner of approach and dressing. This will make her feel safe and secure talking to you. You need to show her (through the way you act) that you just want to talk and be a friend. In been friendly your body posture and your tone is very important. Talk softly, keep calm and look at her often.


4. Start a conversation

In starting a conversation, you need to understand the person you are talking with. To make things easy start by taking about the current environment you both found yourself, give compliment about the place either bad or good and try to hear what she as to say, what ever compliment she gives, use it as a start point to start a conversation, e.g if she says the environment is nice ask her what makes her think so, she will tell you things that make her think the place is nice, then pick one of the things she said and talk about it.


5. Understand her reaction to the topic.

While talking to her, understand her reaction towards the topic and understand her body language. If it's a topic she finds interesting, she would want to bring out a lots of points and opinion but if it's a topic she does not find interesting she would want to end by giving only few opinion. When you find out that she is giving only few opinions drop the topic and and try to bring up another topic but before you bring up the topic compliment her a little to put a smile on her before bringing up another topic, this will make her show interest on what you want to say next.


6. Pay attention to her points.

While having the conversation pay good attention to her points and opinion and let here know you are following up. You can do this by repeating what she said in some of you points, e.g remember you said you like dogs without tails, for me I think dogs without tails look dangerous. When you do this it gives her that feeling that you are worth talking to.


7. Don't always agree with her.

In some cases you can agree with her but constantly agreeing with her will make the conversation short and boring this is Because it will look like you both are have the same opinions about the topic and hence there is no need to talk on it.


8. Put on a smile.

Put on a smile always well talking with her don't keep a straight face or sad face. Putting a smile on your face will make her feel comfortable, safe and happy.


10. Ask her to hang out with you later.

Create another time to hang out with her but don't make the time to long or short, ask her the kind of place she would like to hang out, but don't sound too desperate to hang out.


11. Ask for her number

After you guys have agreed to hang out some other times ask her for her number so that you can keep in touch. Call her immediately to make sure she has your number as well.


With these points talking to any girl in a public place is sure for you.