Men do hurt their wives or girlfriends in the name of correction. Most times they speak harshly, they approach their woman rashly and they can be very brutal. Many women are living their lives in bitterness and anger due to the ways their husbands and boyfriends have been talking to them over time.

In this article, you will be able to see the right way to talk to your woman without hurting her.

(1) Lower The Tone Of Your Voice:

Don’t shout at your woman, she is not a child or your housemaid, correct her with a tone of love in your voice.

(2) Do It In Love:

Correction should be done in love, if it is done in another way, it turns to criticism and condemnation.

(3) Don’t Criticize:

Stop criticizing her, rather correct in love. Many people say it is constructive criticism.It means disapproval by pointing out errors and mistakes.

Correction and criticism are never the same.

Husband A says “What manner of food is this? Is this popcorn or fride rice?. How I wish I married a more sensible wife with better home training, who can cook better”.

Husband B says “Sweetheart this rice is too salty and dry, unlike the one you did yesterday, I think the salt level should be reduced any other time because of our health”.

Husband A criticized,while Husband B corrected his wife in love. Stop criticizing your wife.

(4) Praise Her For What Is Right:

It will be wrong to correct when it is not well done. Form the habit of appreciating your wife for good deeds.

(5) Don’t Correct Her In Public:

Avold correcting your wife/girlfriend in public, it does not show you as a gentleman, it will also affect her self esteem.

(6) Don’t Do It Before Your Children

(7) Avoid Correcting Her In Anger

(8) Don’t Compare Her With Any Other Woman

(9) Don’t Attack Her Dignity

(10) Avoid Reffering To Old Issues