Don't ever compare the olden day's marriage to this our present generation. Back then, marriage was very easy because everyone knows their role; the man will go to work to get the food get the money while the woman will be at home preparing the food and taking care of the kids.

Back then, our mothers know how to love our fathers because they weren't looking for their own money then. Now come to this our generation everyone is fighting to be the head. You are in a house you don't even know who is the husband and who is the wife anymore all because of money.

To even marry in this generation is more difficult compared to the olden days. If you don't have money you can't marry who you love. In fact, you can't marry or you end up cohabiting. And to even get money now is more difficult compared to those days.

In the olden days to pay bride price; you don't have to get all the millions or do all these 3 types of marriage people do these days.

Firstly, traditional marriage
Secondly, the white wedding which is also known as Christian marriage.
Thirdly, reception.

Now, after all these marriages the guy becomes broke. And if an average man thinks of these things do you think he'll get married? And this man needs someone to love someone he would call his own.

It even more worst...girls of this generation wanna live a luxury life. Life even their parents don't have. So they put pressure on the guys and make the guys do crazy things for money.

Do you know how it feels when your woman left you for another simply because you wouldn't buy her what she asked for? Do you know how it feels when you woman cheat on you with your friends because you don't have money?

Girls of this generation do all these to guys. The worst part is no job so the guys become more frustrated and depress.

A guy who really loves you and really wants to spend his eternity with you can't really get what he wants because the bride price will cut off his neck. And this is the reason why guys date for long and some even impregnate their girlfriends outside wedlock.

However, am not in support of those who impregnate their girlfriend outside wedlock in other to trap her.

Now all these pressures have made guys of nowadays put their hands into bad things. Not that they are lazy according to what people are actually saying but the girls and society are demanding beyond their pocket.

Let's learn to make things easy for ourselves and you'll see no one will date for 5 years without marriage unless that person is still a kid.