In life, we all have to make choices and these choices determine our future or the outcome of our lives, however, it is so disheartening that many young men have missed it in life and are now living in poverty as a result of their mistakes while they were growing up.

These mistakes prove to be very deadly, so I'll be highlighting some of such mistakes to prevent others from making them in life.

1. Unwanted pregnancies:

The fact is that every child is a blessing and a gift of God to his parents, but however some have turned to hunt their parents due to the fact that they were not ready to shoulder such responsibilities at that time.

The current economic and social-cultural situation of our country is hard already, it is extremely hard for a young man to work his way to the top, now add the responsibility of taking care of a child it is a mammoth task as he would only be crushed by the weight.

Many unwanted pregnancies occur during or shortly after secondary school a time when the two people involved are still under the care of their parents, the result is that they will drop out of school and the male goes in search of a job with no certificates or with just SSCE.

The female also is greatly affected as she would be forced to drop out of school and may never go back again, and if the person who impregnates her doesn't marry her that may be the end for her as men a selective when it comes to marrying a single mother.

The male goes in search of a job no more time to further his education as responsibility pile up him or is A very tough situation, your life can never remain the same after that experience.

2. Marrying a bad woman:

Love is mostly the reason why people get married but some still marry out of fear, agreement, lust, arrangement, pity the list is endless.

The irony is that any marriage that is not based on true love can not last and a wrong partner can pose a great challenge to one's future plane, you can't succeed with an angry woman in your house she will frustrate your effort.

All men seek happy he's but only a chosen few archives it as the rest are stuck in a web of commotion with their partners, a woman who hates you or a jealous spouse can go to any lent to make sure that she destroys everything that can make the man happy.

And when you don't have peace, you can't eat good food you just can't think right, i know a man who has such a wife she would always look for ways t fight with him a and he is a good man and doesn't beat her, she has fought off all his family members now the man is alone.

She made him lose his office job due to overthinking and has also frustrated his efforts to get another, she is not bothered about money since her parents are rich, she doesn't cook or perform her duties as a wife to him, all these are things that can hinder a man's progress.

We only pray that God guides us in life, and also shine your eye.

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