I met this guy last September and he had been asking me to date him until this February when I agreed and we started a relationship.

I never expected him to be genuine due to my past relationships even though he claimed he loves me from the bottom of his heart. Since I had this believe that you could never be truly loved by any guy on earth unless he wants something, I denied him sex in the meantime pending my observations on his behavior and habits and I found out that he wasn't actually my type of guy and some of the things he does are not signs of a responsible adult but he was a caring and loving person and I loved him for that.

We dated for three months until one day few weeks ago,he asked me if I would marry him and I refused not because I don't want to but because I know my people would not want the union because I already made enquires.

Out of anger, he broke up the relationship and started laying all sorts of curses on me. However I explained the problem to him and made him understand that I already made enquires and it wouldnt be possible.

Please did I do something wrong by telling him the truth because I could have easily deceived him too. The truth is I really love this guy now more than before because he changed some of the characters I never liked but I denied him sex because you never know what a guy can endure just to get it, that's the part where my belief never changed anyway.

My question is how can a guy who claims to love you easily speak misfortune into your life? Not that I'm bothered because we have discussed to an extent that I knew that he was not going towards that direction. I still believe that all these was also towards the same sex.

He always troubled me for it anyways. In the course of the break-up, he confessed to having another girlfriend who I never knew about. I didn't let him know how that angered me because it's just three months and he already have another girlfriend.

So please I need answers so badly, how can a guy who claims to love you speak misfortune into your life?