If you don't want to grow white hairs before you get married as a single woman, here are the things you need to do to attract your man and get married on time.

#1. Smile: Men love smilling women.No not the smile that begins and ends with the mouth, but the one that starts from the eyes. Genuine, loving smile attracts people, creates friendship and unlock doors! Learn to smile at people babies, women who lack men's attention rarely smile. They are always cold and look as if they are carrying the problems of the whole world on their head.

Some ladies hardly smile but are always frowning! Look here, ladies, everybody has a problem and no man wants to add another person's problem to his own. Be a genuinely happy woman and show it by smilling at people. Men will find you irresistible and seek to know you more. Note: Don't smile like a mad person, know the limits.

#2. Be Humble: Humble women don't lack suitors! One sure way to stay single for a long time is to be proud and cocky as a single lady! Proud women are big turn off! If you always roll your eyes at people, segregate yourself from the company of common people, talk down on anybody and you are practically rude because of your class, money, car, social status, job etc. Bet me, you will stay single forever!

Please be humble! Learn how to accommodate all classes of people. Learn how to serve others. Learn to use "sir" when talking to men. Some men may tell you it doesn't matter but secretly, they love it. Men love it when women addresses them with respect because a man naturally spells love as respect. Learn to be respectful and submissive to authorities as a single lady.

#3. Be Confident: Confident women are attractive anyday and anytime. Knowing who you are, pursuing your dreams, vision, passion and goals makes you a confident person worth investing in. When you know that your reason for being here on earth is far more than getting married, punching out few kids and staying locked in the kitchen forever; you will then approach life with a positive mindset. Be energetic and confident in who you are as a woman. Strive to have a good, sound self esteem and men will be irresistibly drawn to you.

#4. Be Friendly: Ladies who keep to themselves hoping that some prince charming will find them aren't yet ready for marriage. Being friendly is totally different from being desperate and cheap. Go out as a single lady, attend positive programmes, conferences, seminars, workshops, symposiums and serve in your local church if possible. Enjoy meeting new people and getting to know them purely for friendship not for marriage. A man can smell it a million miles away if you are desperate and chasing him. Just be yourself. If you are just being friendly and he thinks you are cheap, that's his headache! Don't let that stop you from being friendly to people. Smile a lot(not stupidly), meet people and be that happy person everyone wants to have around.

#5. Be Generous: Stingy women who can't part with anything don't know what marriage is about. Be generous to people.Be generous with what you have. Be generous with your smile, your love, your talent, your service, your money, your prayers, whatever you have got that can bless lives. Remember that generous women attract men and they never lack admirers but be wise in your generosity as a woman.

#6. Be Forgiving: Forgive all your Ex, forgive the guy who abused or raped you, forgive all who disappointed you in the past. Practise advance forgiveness. Forgive people before they even hurt you because more people will offend you. If you find it difficult forgiving people, you will grow bitter and people will move away from you especially men. Release the man who promised you marriage but disappointed you and married someone else. Actually, you two weren't meant to be together. If you had married him, who knows? You may have been divorced. Thank God for it and move on because if you don't release that man, you may never find any man to marry you! Men will definitely and unconsciously move away from you and you will be single and miserable for the rest of your life.

#7. Be Intelligent: Men love intelligent women. As a woman, know when, how and when to talk. Don't be a dummy upstairs. Know what is going on around you. You shouldn't be a naive, empty-brained beauty queen. Your face may get you into marriage, but your brain will determine hwo long you will last. A man likes a woman who can give intelligent answers to questions and contribute meaningfully to discussions. For example, if he asks you, "Why is Nigeria in the mess we are?" And you scratched your head, looked at the ceiling, bite your finger and say, "I don't know". My sister, your brain needs serious rewiring because your village people are seriously following you.

#8. Be Neat: Dirty ladies aren't good marriage candidates. Some ladies look great outside but if you see where they step out from, you will remember world war 2! Very dirty, disorganized and rough to say the least! No sane man wants to marry a dirty woman. Learn to be neat. Take good care of your underwear, learn to shave. Keep off the body and mouth odour because no man actually deserves that punishment. Deal with the eczema and pimples, do your hair on time or comb it well. Always appear neat and presentable.

#9. Learn to dress well: Wear something that fits your body shape. Learn about your body shape and wear something that flatters your figure. Straight ladies need clothes that flatters the waist line. There are some clothes are good for hourglass shape and not good on pear shape. Apple shapes will look great in skirts and suits, pears will look great in gowns etc. I am not saying you can't wear different kinds of clothes but just wear the ones that fits you. They will make you look sweet and simply irresistible.

#10. Love yourself: You can't love others if you don't love yourself. Celebrate yourself. Accept yourself the way you are, you are simply the best. Don't envy anybody because not everyone got what you got. Celebrate your uniqueness because men love ladies who love themselves. Don't envy someone else's looks rather love what you have. Don't wish you have a fuller chest, heavy bum, long nose or longer hair. The man God created for you needs someone exactly like you and will fall in love with you just the way you are, so chill my sister and appreciate God.

#11. Be Godly: Godly women carry God and carry gold. Men find them irresistible.

#12. Build a Good Relationship with your Dad and Siblings: It tells a man how you will treat him in marriage.

#13. Be Feminine: Some women have masculine nature; "The tomboys"! And I really do understands that some men loves them as that. As a woman, be conscious of your standing posture, learn how to sit like a lady and talk like like lady! It's " un woman" to sit with your laps thrown apart, you belch loudly after gulping a bottle of malt and barge in and out of the house like a soldier! Please sister, even soldiers are regal in their steps! Please stop giving men the impression that they want to marry a man! Be ladylike! Learn it if it is not natural with you.

#14. Be Hardworking: No man wants to marry a lazy, indolent, passive, idle, backward, sleeping, purposeless and visionless woman! You will attract your kind as a woman. If you want a hardworking man, be hardworking, up and doing, agile, proactive, versatile, business oriented, creative and industrious. Learn how to make money as a woman and make sure you have an active bank account.

#15. Read Books: Ladies who read instead of jumping from house to house gossiping about nothing in particular don't lack good suitors. Read godly books that would bless your life and make you a testimony to others.

#16. Goodly Associations: Some women will never marry until they change their friends. If you want to marry fast, you will need to let go of your unserious friends who enjoy only clubbing and get close to married women with beautiful marriages whom you can learn from.

As a single woman, you should practise all the above principles if you truly want to get married on time and don't forget to pray against delay and deal with every stronghold and spiritual problems in your life. I see you getting married soon but don't forget to send me an invitation. Happy married life in advance.