There’s a belief that men don’t pay attention to tiny details and see only things that lie on the surface. The fact is, they usually care about things that women don’t even think about. And of course it’s good to know about these things so you can use them to your advantage.

1. Facial expression
It is absolutely wrong to think that men cannot read emotions: during evolution all men have acquired this skill in telling friends about enemies. It seems that men do not just notice the clear signals such as tears or a smile. They also see uncertainty reflected in cold eyes and a slight disappointment in the lips that are compressed. The ability to read faces gives them the opportunity to understand what women want even before they know it. This non-verbal (wordless) communication can even excite men because it helps them feel special.

2. Outfit color she prefers
This trick is pretty simple. Everyone knows that colors affect our moods, emotions and appetite in different ways. Red symbolizes energy and passion; black symbolizes elegance, reliability and shyness; Pink symbolizes warmth and tenderness. So if a woman chooses a certain color to go out with her boyfriend or husband, she sends subconscious signals about her mood for the evening, and her partner's intuition probably absorbs this. There is also something like a color personality type that divides people into 4 categories. It is helpful to know these types when meeting new people because you can learn a lot about their character from their looks.

3. Whether she sings in the shower or not
If we're going to take a shower, we're alone. We are calm and do not feel ashamed. Our stress level drops and our brain begins to produce dopamine, which causes pleasure. In these moments we want to sing about our mood whether it is good or bad. In reality, this behavior helps a person to start and relax again, even when they know that someone is at home. Which is good because if we don't feel that we can show our emotions for a long time, it can affect our psyche, which can cause stress and lead to fights and arguments. Not surprisingly, men pay attention to this because it helps them to imagine and process their partner's mood that will help them and the future of their relationship.

4. The way she does texts
Only the bravest among us are comfortable just showing their emotions and discussing their feelings. Most of us (especially those of us who are used to tips) try to do this without making eye contact. SMS is a space where women can reveal their true feelings and are usually more sincere, and men know it. Why people try to decipher all the signs they get in messages and track how often, why and when women text it. Here's another interesting fact: Linguists say that the words we use tell a lot about our character. Frequent phrases like "I think, I feel" mean that a person focuses on themselves. If someone is always trying to convince you that they are sincere by using 'I bet, believe me', then they might be lying. It is easier to notice this while texting, which is why people who are tuned in to it use this method to make judgment about the other person.

5. Beverage she prefers
White wine and seafood, gin and tonic with friends, red wine when strained. Preferences in drinks, as well as food and clothing, can tell a lot about a person. Some men pay attention to this so they will know what to order next, and some men do it to find out the current mood of their loved one. Men also notice whether women drink because they enjoy the taste from time to time or whether they are addicted to it.

6. Clothes she wears to impress
Yes, people notice clothes. They don't care about brands, the latest collection or price tags. But they will always notice a sense of elegance, style and sexuality.
It is also possible to find out a woman's attitude towards a specific man based on how she is dressed: if she goes on an appointment in a beautiful dress and wears her hair perfectly, she is probably very interested in the man, but if she doesn't care and get into her everyday outfit, that's probably a bad sign.
It is also important how confident she is. If she looks beautiful but feels shy and shakes like a leaf, it makes a good impression. But if she is relaxed, trying to impress someone and just enjoying herself and the atmosphere can improve her image.

7. Whether she eats a lot of meat or not
In most cases, women prefer salads on a date. On the one hand, they admit that they were afraid to give the impression of being greedy and eating a lot. On the other hand, they try to show that they are fit and healthy.
In reality, this behavior has the opposite effect. Women who eat salads look shy, self-conscious, and consequently less attractive compared to a woman who orders a steak and looks confident and relaxed. On top of that, you feel more comfortable because you are on a date with a person and not a rabbit.
Of course, this means that women should only eat fatty dishes just to impress men. They just have to remember that they can order whatever they want, not hesitate if they want chicken or fish instead of salad, and just be relaxed.


And what's the first thing you notice when you meet a new person?