The question that should keep ringing in our heart is how do we expect our partner to love us when we practically don't have this love towards ourself? How do we want people around us to love our personality when we don't love ourselves?

A lot of people in life do complain a lot about been rejected, and to be factual this has led to a lot of depression and suicide.

But all this painful experiences could be easily avoided, how? Try to fall in love with yourself first, love your personality by doing this every one including your partner will have no choice than to fall in love with you

How can this be achieved?
God created every being with distinct features, yours might not be the flashy outward ones it might be inwardly

*let it always ring in your ears, saying to yourself everyday that you are specially made by God, you are special, too special to be treated worthlessly

*discover your selling point: this is the part we all boast of, and am telling you there is no one who dosent have that distinctive feature in them, you might be intelligent, beautiful, great height, pink lips, nice eyebrows or the rest. Whenever you are even subjected to abuse because you lack any of this features focus more on the things you have and others dosent have cherish those more.

*never stay where you are no longer needed: this is called self respect or self esteem, whenever your audience and presence is no longer recognized or needed in a place, learn to walk away.

*be bold: you have to be able to deduce what you want and can tolerate from what you can't, when the world comes against you roar back at them like a lion.

Lastly always know that nobody does what you do best like yourself, you are the best, wonderfully and made specially to make exploits, love yourself do not allow some inferior beings pull you down.